Three Creative Twists on Your Wedding Vows
Wedding vows are REALLY important. Reciting them makes your nuptials “official,” but at the same time – saying them can be a little embarrassing for a lot of people. I would say 50 percent of my couples decide to write their won vows. It is a very personal choice and some couples may prefer to simply repeat the words that their officiant has chosen for them. Here are a few creative twists you may want to consider when planning your wedding vows.
Recite Them During The Rehearsal
I recently shot a wedding in which the Bride and Groom decided to surprise everyone and actually get married during their day before rehearsal. I had never seen or heard of this being done and, to be honest, I was a little skeptical on if they were going to pull it off. Not only did their plan go PERFECT, it was incredibly beautiful and intimate. The Bride and Groom really wanted to have just their closest friends and family present when they said their vows. One the day of their wedding, they repeated the wording that the Officiant had put together. They go out of saying them in front of all their guests, but were also able to fit it in the day before.
Just the Two of You, Before the Ceremony
One wedding that I shot, in 2017, decided to have their first look and then read their vows to each other shortly after. As the Photographer, it was important to give them their space. This allowed them to have this moment all to themselves without intruding on their moment. I was too far to hear what was being said, but judging by both of their reactions – it turned out just how they had planned.
Written Down in a Card
I recently signed up for an Audible audio book subscription. I had heard a lot of really good things about Audible and decided to give it a shot. For the majority of people, this is a lot different than the traditional way of “reading,” a book. It definitely is a more effective way of getting through a book (for most people I would assume); and at the end of the day, the same objective is accomplished.
The same can be said about writing your vows down in a card as opposed to saying them out loud. For people who are better at expressing themselves through writing, I think this option is a very good alternative to look into.
I hope these three twists are helpful in planning your very own wedding vows. If you are in the process of planning your own wedding, I would love to schedule a time to chat. I’d be honored to help answer any questions you have and go over how I approach wedding photography. The best way to reach me is through the contact form on my website. Thanks!